CaliforniA-dieu, HellO-regon

On June 9th our BFFs/family came out to meet up with us from Tampa, FL to San Francisco, CA. Not only did they fly in but they drove straight to us from the airport to snuggle, eat cheese, walk along the ocean side, and get some quality time in. My BFF, Dani, and I even managed to get the dads to walk with the kids to the store to get slime makings while we sat on a bench looking over the ocean and get some quality time together. We make lots of friends along this journey and I get some girl talk time in here and there but nothing like sitting with your BFF in sweats just dishing and listening.

We spent our first day going over the Golden Gate Bridge, stopping for the inaugural pix, heading to Sausalito for some shopping and eating, back along the Golden Gate Bridge, hit the world-famous sour dough bread maker Boudin, and wound up eating at their hotels comfy closed restaurant (and we ate it alllllll!)

Day 2 we went to Alcatraz and it was awesome! This sounds weird but the flowers on the island were so beautiful and I took so many pictures of them it was kind of odd. The history was surprising since I didn’t know about eighty percent of what had occurred on the island except that it was a jail. I highly recommend going if you can or reading a book on the history of the island because it wasn’t just a jail by any means.

After Alcatraz we grabbed lunch, and don’t judge, at Boudin again. Most people like to try different places when they go somewhere new but it was sooooo good we couldn’t not go again. Afterwards, we hopped on the bus and headed to Haight and Ashbury. Now, I know people might not always be jumping to go to the hippiest location and especially with kids but Dani and I were dyyyyyying to go. We arrived, started putzing the fun and quirky stores, did some killer people watching, and then headed to the park to bring the kids to the play area. We couldn’t find the play area and this might not’ve been the most kid friendly place so we all ubbered home ready for the next day.

This was my most excitable day because we were going to Muir Woods National Monument. On this journey, especially since Kings Canyon, I’ve become a biggggg fan of John Muir and couldn’t wait to see “his” woods. When we got there with our parking reservations, which is required and has never happened in any other park we’ve ever been to, checked in, and met up, I was ready and raring to go. It was so lush, green, the redwoods were so tall, and it was all breathtaking. Dani, who isn’t a nature/hiking person, even loved it! My niece and nephew, earned their first Junior Ranger badges which was super exciting for us and the girls.

After we drove to Stintson Beach, grabbed a delicious lunch near the beach, dipped our toes in the sand. Brie and RJ collected sand crabs while Natalie and Emmy did “sand gymnastics”. It’s a pretty magical thing to spend the afternoon on the beach with four kids who love the beach and never complain!

Next day, NAPA!!!!!!!!!!!!! We met at their hotel, then to the family pool, then….wait for it….Dani and I left to go to the adult only pool to then go to the spa!!! Holy awesomeness! There’s really no words. If you’re a mom, especially one that lives in 300 sq ft with your family, you get it! Then all eight of us went to dinner at Oxbrow Market where we all grabbed food we liked from stands, ate outside and enjoyed each other’s company.

Our final day together we hit the vineyards. Who knew Napa was so family friendly and we could not have been more thankful. Silver Oak was our first stop. They had a big open grassy area the kids just loved and the adults enjoyed our wine tasting. After that we went to the Hall vineyard. There they had comfy living room style setups outdoors, along with corn hole, bocce ball, and more. We tasted, played, and enjoyed our last day together. Lastly we went to V. Sattui for lunch at their amazing deli along with cheeses and wine and then self-toured and learned how wine is made. Lastly, we took the kids for ice cream and took a picture to savor at the infamous Napa sign. We said a sad goodbye and they went on to visit family.

It was hard to say goodbye to our family and friends in NJ when we left on this journey but we were excited to see the USA. However, saying goodbye to our BFFs/family without a set time to see them next weighed on my heart. They’re our people and we miss them so much when we are on opposite poles of the East Coast but we usually have an until date. We know we can NOT go long without seeing them and the eight of us as a force will make it happen sooner than later. My heart was full of love, laughter, and memories from our week together.

The next day we said our final farewell to the great state of California with its varied terrains, amazing beaches, giant trees, awesome cultural diversity, amazing wine and it’s most apparent liberalness. Off to one of my most anticipated states, Oregon. In case you’re wondering it is not pronounced or-a-gone, it’s or-gan with a soft i in between the two but said almost as one syllable. We hit the coast first and stayed at South Beach State Park Campground in Newport. This was hands down my favorite campground ever!

Why? We were in the trees and could hike among them. The roads and trails were paved and we could bike everywhere. The beach was within a half mile and it was gorgeous. The facilities were clean, there was a ranger station and hospitality center, kids state park badge earning program, huge sites, and it was safe. We met a great family and the girls quickly made friends. Our time here was spent crabbing (Hint: it’s cheaper to buy the supplies at Walmart than rent) and eating crab, especially Dungeness crab, beach combing for agates, sea glass and other treasures, finding and exploring amazing tide pools, especially along the outer parts of the jetty at low tide, walking the beach, bike riding many miles, earning junior ranger badges and awards, having big fires with our new friends, creating our own rock polisher for all of our beach findings (thank you Pinterest) and visiting the amazing Hatfield Marine Science Center (Hint: this is donation based as opposed to the costly Oregon Coast Aquarium and it goes to a good cause).

After we headed up to Mount Hood National Forest and back to our trusty Thousand Trails campgrounds. A beautiful campground, dream like scenic views, hiking trails that always exceeded our expectations, local places to get what we needed, and best of all we met great friends in the Young family! An awesome couple and their two boys who are the same age as the girls and by an act of God, literally, we all clicked in a million ways and taught each other a few things. It’s easy to make friends along the way but rarely do all four of us click but we knew we were meant to meet and it was easy to be together, shared a lot of the same values and parenting styles, our kids enjoyed some of the same things while also enjoying learning new hobbies from each other, and we all just happily jelled together.

While in Mount Hood we hiked the Old Salmon River Trail, Ramona Falls Trail, Mirror Lake Trail and, from our campground, the Cascade Streamwatch Trail where there was an underwater viewing area and then stopped at the Mountain View Recreation Area for a snack and playground fun. All of these hikes provided us with exposure to and views of God’s amazing creation. I expected Oregon to be lush and gorgeous but I am truly in awe! We also spent two days in Portland. Our absolute favorite was going to Powell’s Bookstore, the world’s largest independent bookstore housing new and used books, and we went both days we were there. The first day was a Saturday so we went to the Saturday Market, ate some food truck finds, listened to some live music and shopped/putzed. The second trip, after Powell’s, we hit the city block full of food trucks a few blocks away and then Voodoo Donuts (Hint: I think that the Old Dirty Bastard and Voodoo doll were the best) and both were amazing. Both days were enjoyable and we felt like we’d seen most of what we needed to.

Next we move on to Washington and I can not wait to spend time exploring this corner of our country but will greatly miss the Youngs! (The picture below is Brie crying as well pulled away from our new friends…little does she know what’s too come…stay tuned!)

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Full-timing & Fuller Hearted

We are officially in our second week of full-timing, as it’s called in our new awesome lifestyle. The change from living in our old town, the girls going to public school and all of us being very immersed in it, to moving to a new town and homeschooling, and now to living full-time in our RV, roadschooling and with some days of just us, has been a big transition. However, I have to say that my children really go with the flow, embrace life and it has been a welcomed slowing of pace to the chaos of the past few months. img_8142

If anyone is concerned about my mental well-being after the first week from Hell, do not fret. Since I have had my multiple panic attacks, made my husband invest a small fortune in upgrading his truck, and froze in states where it’s normally warm, we have found a happy rhythm. It has still been unseasonally cold this week in Tennessee but we hiked, ate some good southern food, explored the beautiful KOA of Sweetwater, and learned a lot this week. While Shaun was working the girls and I bundled up and got outside a lot. Fresh air did us a lot of good!

Now we are trying to make the most of our space, personalize it a bit (which we’ve yet to do) and learn to make the most of everyday. One tip I’m learning quick is that if we are traveling or want to do a full day of something, we need to, and absolutely can, modify our schooling schedule (even doing some reading while still in bed because why get up). Part of this journey is to make the most of our days, and yes they need to learn and grow mentally, but exploring, wandering, and being free is also a big part of it. This is the part that we can not take advantage of when we are home, they’re in public school and there are rules to everything. I’m saying rules-schmules…LIFE is what my kids need!

This week coming up is going to be a GREAT part of our journey! We are headed to Florida to see the Pieklos, our BFFs/Family/Loves! It’ll be the first time we all bring the kids to Universal Studios where we will celebrate Shaun’s 40th. During the week we’ll get some quality time in. Then the following weekend we’ll hit Magic Kingdom and Epcot and the following day celebrate Dani’s 40th. That will be the cherry on top of the ice cream sundae because her and I are hitting the spa and we NEED it! It’s been quite the past 6 months for us both and these mammas deserve a 40th birthday celebratory BFF spa day!!!

I must admit that since Dani and the fam moved, it’s been sad for me (and all of us). I totally get why they moved and knew it was their dream so I support their dreams but am sad without them close by. The best part of our friendship is that we always get each other, think too much alike, support each other in our hair brain ideas, and back each up in our crazy, and sometimes illegal, whims. Other great parts are that our kids love each other and fight like siblings, which is pure love in the kid world. This week is going to be the best, warmest and funnest (yup a word!)!!!!

So, what happened this week past, I did our first load of laundry thus far. Let me tell you, doing your laundry once a week with three machines simultaneously is awesome! It would be less if Shaun’s clothes weren’t so God forsakingly big but he’s a giant so that is life. Then they had big dryers so all of it went into one big drier and was put away in no time. Mom win! Southern food is delicious, albeit not healthy but yummy. Long division and money were conquered in our roadschooling! Mom tackle, goal and field goal!

We went to the Cherohala Skyway and saw the breathtaking Bald River Falls. There were frozen sections and it was truly a display of God’s handiwork.

Tomorrow we start the two-day travel to Florida and we are all excited for the journey because the end of the road is going to be great! See y’all next week…might post after we depart on Tuesday 2/6 so I can give you the full download of our time but you never know, I might be too excited to share the fun also.

Til then… img_8104